From Shy to Shine - Help Your Child Find Their Voice

As the leader of Lichfield Young Voices Choir, I’ve seen firsthand how transformative choir singing can be for children -especially those who start out shy, uncertain, or withdrawn. There’s something magical about the way music draws out confidence, fosters connection, and helps young people discover their voice - both literally and figuratively. 

When children join a choir, they’re not just learning to sing. They’re stepping into a space where their voice matters, where they’re part of something bigger than themselves, and where they’re encouraged to grow at their own pace. Over the years, I’ve witnessed countless stories of children who blossomed through choir involvement. Let me share a few that continue to inspire me. 

Ella’s Journey: From Whisper to Soloist 

Ella joined Lichfield Young Voices at age 8. She was so quiet during her first rehearsal that I wasn’t sure she’d return. She barely spoke, avoided eye contact, and sang in a whisper. But she kept coming back. Week by week, her voice grew stronger. Surrounded by supportive peers and gentle encouragement, Ella began to smile more, sing louder, and even help others with their parts. 

Two years later, she auditioned for a solo in our spring concert. I’ll never forget the moment she stepped forward and sang with clarity and emotion. Her parents were in tears. Ella had found her voice -and her confidence - through choir. 

Liam’s Confidence Through Community 

Liam was a bright boy with a stammer that made him hesitant to speak in public. His parents hoped joining Lichfield Young Voices might help him feel more comfortable expressing himself. At first, Liam was nervous, but he quickly discovered that singing was different from speaking. The rhythm and melody gave him a sense of control and freedom. 

In choir, Liam didn’t feel judged. He felt supported. Over time, his speech improved, and so did his self-esteem. He began volunteering to lead warm-ups and was even interviewed on camera for a promotional video. Young Voices gave Liam a platform to grow, not just musically, but personally. 

Choir as a Safe Space 

What makes choir so powerful for shy children is the sense of safety and belonging it provides. There’s no pressure to stand out immediately. Children can blend into the group, learn at their own pace, and gradually step into the spotlight when they’re ready. The collective nature of choir singing means no one is alone, and every voice contributes to the harmony. 

Choirs also teach children to listen - to themselves, to others, and to the music. This attentiveness builds empathy, patience, and mutual respect. It’s not just about singing in tune; it’s about growing together. 

A Voice That Lasts a Lifetime 

For many children, choir is the first place they feel truly heard. It’s where they learn that their voice matters, that they can express themselves, and that they belong. Whether they go on to sing professionally or simply carry the confidence they gained into other areas of life, the impact is lasting. So, if you have a shy child who loves music - or even one who’s unsure - consider Young Voices. It might just be the key to helping them shine. 

Lichfield Young Voices Choir meets on Mondays from 4.30pm to 5.30pm during term-time in Minster Hall, Lichfield. For more information, complete the form below

Cathy Lamb 
Director of MusicShare and Lichfield Young Voices Choir Leader